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fan•ta•sy
- imagination, esp. when extravagant and unrestrained,
- an imagined event or sequence of mental images, such as a daydream, usually fulfilling a wish or psychological need
Sexy Fantasy Roleplay
We all have sexy fantasies, those scenarios that we imagine in our minds that excite us, turn us on. They are often erotic, perhaps “tabboo”. They are our secret stories, wishes, and desires.
Some of the more common sexual fantasies include: having sex in the workplace, public or public places, outdoors, with a multitude of partners, between student and teacher, between patient and doctor, with a stranger, and many more. While there may be common themes, our fantasies are as unique, individual and personal as our inmost feelings and thoughts.
Sharing these fantasies and role playing some of the scenarios can be an exciting way to spice things up in the bedroom. Not only do you get to play out some of your sexy fantasies, but you get to play out some of your lover’s fantasies, or maybe scenarios that neither of you have particularly thought of before. Role playing games can be a great addition to your sexy play.
Sexy fantasy games can be played with nothing other than your imagination and some common “props” you find around the house – ie, scarves, ties, spoons, food, etc. Share your fantasy with your lover and then play it out, then next time switch, and play out your lover’s fantasy – or vice versa!
If you’d like some props or a guide to help you get started, EdenFantasys has some great products for your fantasy and roleplaying fun and our role play ideas page contains some specific ideas if you’re not sure where to start.
(You can use the links throughout the following paragraphs to go straight to the product page for each item. Each link opens in a new window.)
The Fantasy Book is a great source for fantasy ideas – a great little book to browse through with your lover (and a good way to “suggest” fantasies without having to say it outright!).
Props
What kind of props do you need for playing out your fantasy? Likely you can find many of them around the house – scarves and ties for blindfolds, or tying arms and legs. Spoons and cords for whips and spanking. Whipped cream, chocolate, or syrup for ravishing eating. Or maybe you need a french maid costume or a teasing whip.
Fantasy body finger paints, the ultimate fantasy kit, or a lover’s fantasy kit might be what you are looking for. You can also visit your local adult store for ideas. And above all, use your imagination!
Games
Ready-made fantasy and role playing games can be handy and give you a structure to your role playing. The exploring ultimate fantasies game comes with cards with scenarios and activies to do, as well as some of the toys and tools needed for the scenarios. The fantasy card game is a set of cards, each with a description of a scenario and suggestions for what to wear, props, etc.
But don’t forget that you can create your own sexy fantasies and roleplay games right at home with things you already have!
