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Romantic Dares
One you might have played in your teens is Spin-the-Bottle. Create your own more adult version of this game by deciding before-hand on a selection of truths and dares that can be used. Make a few truth cards by cutting squares and then writing a whole bunch of random sexy questions on them like “what is your sexiest fantasy with me?” and then put the cards to the side. Each time the bottle lands on one of you and you choose truth; you must draw a card and answer the question.
You will also need a stack of dare cards. You should let your mind wander with this one. Choose sexy, loving, sensual things you haven’t experienced with your partner before like “run your tongue lovingly over my collarbone” or “do a sexy dance to impress me”. This will then be picked up when you choose dare. A game like this will pump both of you full of excitement – that is never a bad thing for a relationship!
You can make the dares more related to a couple specifically and then play this in a group. It doesn’t mean you have to be swingers – just structure the dares in such a way that you act everything out on your partner and no one else.
Romantic dares does not have to be an actual game like spin the bottle. It can be something more daring. Have a very open discussion with your lover about your fantasies, things you want to do, have seen but have never tried and many more topics. Once this is completed and you enjoyed a glass of champagne – dare your partner out of the blue to let one of those dreams become reality!
Get yourself into the character of it immediately, this will help ease your partner into it as well and avoid them feeling like they have been put on the spot.
Also be aware of your partner’s boundaries. It is always a good idea to have a “safe word” or gesture set ahead of time that either one of you can use when things get too uncomfortable or go too far.
Romantic dares can involve touching, massage, flirting, confessions and all of those bundled together. The important thing is letting it enable you to learn more about your partner, what they enjoy and of course, exploring their body.
If you play romantic dares from the beginning it will keep your relationship fun and add some excitement. But it can also put sparks back into a relationship that has fallen into the trap of becoming a bit dull.
You might have to start out slowly and get used to each other again but from there on it can only get better. You will both gain something from an experience with romantic dares, so all you have to do is set the mood and approach the game with a open mind and a lot of passion!
