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Flirting. It’s in our DNA. We, as women, were born to flirt.

Flirting has the ability to allow us to get whatever we want. It is also absolutely necessary to keeping the romance in your love life alive.

And let’s face it, flirting is super FUN.

Remember when you first met your man, and you caught his eyes for the first time?

Remember what happened when you smiled his way, tilted your head, perhaps played with your hair or gently caressed your neck and chest, or touched his arm or back?

He payed attention. Why?

Because you payed attention to him. In a word, you captivated him, all by averting the attention from yourself and showering it onto him.

You hung on his every word (without even realizing it), you secretly thought about massaging his chest, kissing his lips, and couldn’t wait to be alone with him.

And then somehow life happened. You moved in together. Got married. Had your 2.5 kids and well, for most of us, the romance died.

I know, after 5, 10, 20 years, you might think that romance is unnecessary or maybe you think it’s impossible to bring back but I disagree.

I think you can bring the romance back. And keep it very much alive.

Check out these 5 ways to bring the spark back into your romance.

Talk to Him With Your Body

Body language. Need I say more? If you want your man to pay attention to you (like he used to when you first started dating), touch yourself. Play with your hair, caress your earlobe, tickle your neck, lick your bottom lip, look at him suggestively, eying him up and down…I promise you, he will find a way to get as close to you as possible.

Touch Him

Remember when you first started dating, and every time you touched him, you both felt a tingle or tickle down your spine? To recreate those sparks, touch him inconspicuously. While you are out to dinner or having a drink, brush your hand over his. While you are walking down the street, gently put your hand right above his waistline. When you are sitting in the movies, touch his thigh while reaching for popcorn. While laying next to him, gently place your feet next to his so they lightly touch. The point is to touch him constantly without having to be suggestive.

Give Him the Power

What would your man do if you asked him to make all the decisions on your date night? (You do still have date nights, right?) Let him pick out your clothes, your shoes, the shade of lipstick you wear, where you go, what you do. Regardless of what he chooses, go with it. You will be totally amazed how much pleasure you both will get from this.

Pull Out Your Sexy Panties

Why save your sexy panties or your special clothes for those special
times…birthdays, anniversaries, weekend getaways? Why not wear them now. Put them on under your sweats, your office wear, your everyday attire. Make sure you give your man a sneak peek while getting ready for work, or do something daring like wear your silk cheekies with just an apron while cooking dinner, check your email while sitting in your lace thongs or better yet, sleep naked. You get the idea.

Share With Him One of Your Fantasies

When he least expects it, while he is driving the car, drinking his morning coffee, taking out the trash, share with him one of your most secret fantasies or one of the sexy dreams you had about him. Be as vivid as possible. Then walk away. He will have created an image that will last the entire day and when you reconnect later that afternoon, watch the fireworks explode.

Have you had any success with any of these ideas? Do you have other ways to bring the romance back that you would like to share with us? I would love to hear from you. Drop me a line in the comments below.

Kimberly Riggins is the creator of The Art of Eating Chocolate Naked, founder of The Love Your Naked Ass Warrior Series, and the upcoming author of the book, “Love Your Naked Ass: Making Peace With Your Body, Your Self and Your Thoughts.” Her mission is to help women all over the world fall in love with themselves and their life. She teaches women it is possible to let go of their body image hang-ups, kick negative self-talk to the curb and shows them how to release their inner vixen, who so desperately wants to come out and play. To learn more about Kimberly and her services, visit kimberlyriggins.com.