Yes, it’s true. Most men are fairly easy to arouse. After all, they are very visual creatures.

You could just focus on his penis and jewels, and that will excite him but you would be cheating him out of an erogenous experience that I am betting he rarely has.

The truth is men have a number of secret spots and when they are stroked, kissed and licked right, you have the sheer enjoyment of seeing your man reel in pleasure before penetration even enters the picture.

Curious?

Next time you are in the mood and you want to heat it up with your man, pleasure these areas of his body first. And to make it even more fun, tell him he has to stay still (which means he needs to keep his hands to himself).

His Fantastic Feet

Now if your man is ticklish, you may not want to try this or you might want to at least warn him first, otherwise you might get a knee to the face. But if you are ready to see your man’s toes curl, rub the palm of your hand along the sole of his foot from heel to toes. Then gently twist your finger in a corkscrew motion in between each of his toes. Then gently tug on each toe, elongating it; rinse and repeat. Be prepared to see your man wriggle in delight.

His Tight Thighs

Okay, maybe his thighs are not so secret but when is the last time you lightly traced your fingernails up and down his inner thighs, without laying a finger on his member?

Try it. Stroke gently up and down from the middle of his inner thigh to just about the crevice of his pelvis region. Experiment with a light, medium and hard stroke. Watch for signs. When his body or the surrounding area start to quiver, you found the spot.

His Hearty Hands

There is nothing more sensual than tantalizing your man’s fingers with your tongue. As I have said, men are visual creatures. Watching you suck on his finger, scraping your teeth up and down its flesh will indeed remind him just how powerful and luscious your tongue can be.

His Sexy Stomach

I don’t know about you but my favorite part of a man’s body are his abs. The crevice where his pelvis meets his waist…that indentation, hot damn! If you want your man to get a little frisky, begin with this region. Start by leaving soft, gentle kisses up and down his treasure trail, stopping to play with his belly button. Tease him by running your fingers, and mouth along the waistband of his pants from hip to hip. He will be twisting with excitement, dying to participate. Make him wait.

His Chiseled Chest

If you want to send a shiver down your man’s spine, play with his nipples. They are ultra sensitive and love to be kissed, sucked and nipped. Start with the left one and move to the right, circling back and forth until you feel his back arch. He is getting hot. Almost ready.

His Notorious Neck

A man’s neck, especially behind his ears all the way down to his collarbone, is super sensitive. Kissing this area, feeling your lips, tongue and breath on his skin will definitely ignite some serious sensations “down there.”

His Magical Mouth

Yum, his tasty lips. Start with a gentle, light kiss. Slowly lick or pull his
bottom lip into yours, making sure to give special attention to the corners of his mouth. Repeat with the top lip. Then give him a deep, powerful, long kiss.

I’ll leave the rest up to you. Writing this left me all hot and bothered. Imagining my man reeling in pleasure sure puts me in the mood.

Have fun.

Kimberly Riggins is the creator of The Art of Eating Chocolate Naked, founder of The Love Your Naked Ass Warrior Series, and the upcoming author of the book, “Love Your Naked Ass: 80 Transformative Ways to Change the Way You Think and Feel About Yourself.” Her mission is to help women all over the world fall in love with themselves and their life. She teaches women it is possible to let go of their body image hang-ups, kick negative self-talk to the curb and shows them how to release their inner vixen, who so desperately wants to come out and play. To learn more about Kimberly and her services, visit kimberlyriggins.com.