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Talk Dirty to Him
If you want to learn how to talk dirty to him, it’s really quite simple. When it comes to men, just say what you want, as dirty and graphic as possible!
If you want to give hints to get their attention instead of letting them know exactly what you want, you are going to have to teach them what those hints mean. Men and women both get frustrated when we feel we are not understood. If you, as a woman, are not sure what to say to arouse your lover, just ask! Learn to be direct, instead of hinting.
Men and women differ in many ways in the bedroom and dirty talk is one of those tools that separate us. Like anything else, there are definite differences between men and women when it comes to dirty talk. They approach it differently because they think differently about it.
Yes, dirty talk turns men on! They are just created differently.
A typical male fantasy that easily lends itself to dirty talk would be a teacher keeping his bad student for detention after school (clichéd, perhaps, but tried and true). She has to wait until he tells her exactly what to do. An example might include: “(NAME), you have to stop flirting with the boys in class.” She might protest a bit until he spanks her with a ruler or such and use some dirty talk to kick-start your fantasy.
If men want something, they ask for it. Directly, they will tell you, “I want to take you so hard right now.” “Take off your panties and let me feel you.”, etc. Most men will not employ restrained comments when they see what they want. Communication with men is very clear in terms of talking dirty.
Men love to hear and use dirty talk: on the phone, in the bedroom, even at a neighbor’s party. Try whispering to your man that you want to take him home right that second, lick him all over and let him do anything he wants to you at that party and see what happens.
Advice to women from a man:
“Just to let us know what you want – playing background music will not let us know that you desire us. Telling us that you want to hump to the upbeat definitely will. Do you enjoy lighting candles to set the mood? Use some of the candle wax and tell me what you want to do with it and I will be much more apt to have your total attention.
Your man will love it when you talk dirty to him – and you’ll love the results!
Now, how about some examples of dirty talk?
