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Talk Dirty to Her
By learning to talk dirty to her, you will help her to be more comfortable with her sexuality and more free to express herself. Women need more of that encouragement and need to know that they are accepted, wanted, sexy and turn you on! When you tell her exactly how you want her and what you want to do to her and with her, it will give her the confidence to respond in kind.
Women are subtler and love to drop hints about what they want and many times men are oblivious. How many times has a woman finally told her man what she wanted after dropping clues all over the place and he responds by saying, “Why didn’t you just tell me?”
When women utilize dirty talk, they often use innuendo and expect men to understand exactly what they want. Women’s understated communication, along with the movement of their bodies and their unbridled internal passion are supposed to let him know immediately of their willingness to throw him on the bed. Unfortunately, most men’s brains do not work in subtle terms.
Understanding even a bit how women communicate, and realizing that she just isn’t used to being as direct as you are, can help you encourage her to be more sexually explicit and direct. It can also guide in how you talk dirty to her.
When talking dirty to your girl, use more flowery and feeling words and phrases, as opposed to raw graphic talk. You can say things like “You feel so good” or “You look incredibly sexy” or “I love touching you and feeling your skin”. For women, it is extremely important to hear that they are sexy, loved, wanted and desired. Phrases like this will often get you further than just telling her you want to do her.
But don’t throw out the graphic and explicit all together either. Telling her precisely what you want to do to her can encourage her and give her the confidence to be more sexually agressive and willing to experiment in the bedroom.
Advice to men from a woman:
“We are often subtle and give hints because we just aren’t sure HOW to be straightforward like you guys. Why not try teaching your girl how to tell you what she wants? Encourage her to talk dirty, tell her that you love to hear her say how much she wants you, etc. Compliment her when she is direct and she’ll be more likely to do it again.”
Now how about some examples of dirty talk?
