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Examples of Dirty Talk
Examples of dirty talk abound. If you just do a little searching, you’ll find more than enough to get you started! And once you’ve got that first start, it’s only a matter of your creativity and what you want to take it from there.
Dirty talk is a subtle ability that can be enhanced by your creativity and eroticism. Making up fantasy stories is just one way of playing out your sexual experiences. Once you have played out the story, one idea is to switch and act out your fantasy again. Obviously, there are thousands of permutations of this idea.
When you get into bed, give your significant other a sensual and passionate kiss. We’ll use the woman as the example here. Once you have his attention, you can use dirty talk such as, “Oh, [insert name], bend me over your knee and spank me. I have been such a bad girl. Pwease punish me.” There are not many men who are immune to this type of dirty talk used in a girlish, innocent manner. This usually leads to not only more dirty talk but he can contribute by telling her, “You have been a bad girl. You need to lick me from head to toe and back again.” Dirty talk is indeed a type of foreplay that does not have to be neglected in the lovemaking process.
A woman can dress up and ask her lover what she wants him to do. This is another precursor to dirty talk. Obviously, the sultrier you ask him what you want him to do to you, the more likely it is that he will act out the deeds. Sometimes, the man wants to be in control in the bedroom. Women who use dirty talk take over the reins and the power in the sexual relationship at that time. There is nothing sexier than a woman who asks for what she wants using the dirtiest talk imaginable.
Short but effective examples of dirty talk to get you started:
From the woman
- “Lick my nipples, honey. Oh, you are the best! (Remember, he’s ALWAYS the best, whether you think so or not!).
- “Oh, my nipples ache for you.”
- “You feel so incredible inside of me.”
- “I love how your hands feel on my body!”
In addition, of course:
- “I want you to take me right now!”
By the way, tell him when you are cumming. It is a huge turn-on and he can’t hear enough of all the ways he is pleasuring you.
From the man
- “You are so amazing; nobody has made me feel that way.” (Again, even if it is a lie, it is a white lie and makes her excited).
- “Make me yours; tell me what you want.”
- “I am so hard for you .”
- “Oh, sweetheart, you feel so incredible!”
These are just examples of dirty talk, of course. Spontaneity is the mother of invention and lovemaking, and you know what he/she likes to hear. And if you don’t, ASK! Amazingly, many people do not even ask. Even the shyest among us like to use dirty talk from time to time, and a simple question can steer us in the right direction to get started.
Need some tools to help you learn to talk dirty?
EdenFantasys has some great resources, including:
Dirty minds adds a new twist to dirty talk games. The game gives you a dirty definition, but the answer is actually quite clean. While the object of the game is to figure out what clean word the dirty definition is for, it will certainly give you some ideas for talking dirty!
The Fine Art of Erotic Talk. This frankly provocative and warmly encouraging book is designed for both singles and couples and shows how words can arouse desire, reveal and fulfill fantasies, and infuse lovemaking with romance and fire.
