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Talking Dirty
Are you ready to learn how to talk dirty?
Dirty talk is one of those things that is probably incorrectly named. When you learn how to talk dirty with your partner, it’s really about communication, letting them know what you want, or what is making you hot, or what you’re thinking about. It is healthy, sexy and good for your relationship and your sexy play. But it sounds far more “naughty” and risqué to talk dirty than to simply communicate, right?
Talking dirty can be as mild or as hardcore as you and your lover wish to make it. You can say things like, “I really want you” or “You make me so hot”, or you can get more dirty and use very graphic language. What are you comfortable with and what do you want are questions to ask yourself when you are starting to talk dirty. It can be whatever you make it.
Learning how to talk dirty can be a challenge for some people. Afterall, we are taught that those words are not proper and nice to say. This may be true in every day speech – but what about in the bedroom, when it’s just you and your lover?
Words can be a form of verbal foreplay and are a great addition to your sexy play. When you learn how talk dirty you will likely find that it arrouses both you and your lover. It’s a great way to get things moving and get your sexy on!
If you are one of those people that find it hard to talk dirty, even to your partner, here are some tips to get you started.
Start slow
Take it at your own pace. Start by throwing in a word here and a word there, or start with mild phrases at first.
Push yourself
Do step outside of your comfort zone as much as you can! This is what brings growth and will help you become more accustomed to talking dirty. Push yourself a little further each time.
Learn some vocabulary
Learn some new sexy vocabulary. Do an internet search if you need some help. Find out some new words for those intimate acts and body parts.
Get your lover involved
Your partner probably won’t need much encouragement to join you, but if they do just prompt them gently. Chances are, they’ll simply just respond to what you say. This will help to encourage you and keep the momentum. It’s much easier to have a two-way dirty conversation than to do all the talking yourself!
Take it outside the bedroom
No, I don’t mean start talking dirty in public, or in other inappropriate situations. But what about sending your partner a steamy text message or email during the day? Or you can leave them a “dirty” note. Or maybe just whisper in their ear something that you want to do to them or call them at work to whisper it. This is a fantastic way to build anticipation and keep things exciting for both of you.
These tips should give you a good start, but the key to learning how to talk dirty is to experiment and come up with your own methods, ideas and words.
Okay, ladies, are you ready to learn how to talk dirty to him?
And gents, let’s learn how to talk dirty to her!
