
Foreplay Ideas
Have you run out of foreplay ideas? Are you going through a rut in the bedroom? There are some foreplay ideas that will spice up your sex life. Some may be new to you and some not but they all have the same purpose: to give and receive pleasure.
Write a dirty story and then act it out. You both write whatever you want and then decide who goes first. Read them to each other slowly and act out the fun parts. You might not even get to the end.
Watch an erotic movie together. The key word here is erotic – not pornographic. Most women are not turned on by pornography; but eroticism is a different story. Acting out classic scenes are a great way to get your freak on.
Feed each other. It’s fun, it’s sexy, it’s a turn on. There are many ways to use food to turn each other on and the result is always delicious!
Watch TV together. Sound exciting? Not really, but when the commercials come on, jump on each other and when the program comes back on you have to stop. It’s a fun way to build up the sexual tension.
Hot Chat. On the phone, on the computer, texting? You can do any of the above and pretend you’re other people.
Wear wigs or different clothing. Self-explanatory but again, pretending you’re different people can be extremely sexy if you’re in a rut.
Want to role play? Here are some roles for you to use:
- Knight and princess
- Nurse and Patient
- Doctor and Patient
- Officer and soldier
- Prostitute and customer
- Bimbo and Pimp
- The President and his secretary
- Boss and his secretary
- Taxi driver and passenger
- Lifeguard and drowned person
- Beginning actor that needs to convince the film director to give her a part
- Mechanic and a woman that needs fixing.
- Or check out Roleplay and Fantasy for some more ideas!
There are so many variations to the foreplay ideas that you can easily make up your own. Just mix it up, take these ideas and add your own twists to them. Have fun and share, if you dare…






Hi Jess,
Love your website. Ande Lyons sent me your way! I had to add my FAVE foreplay trick…My hubby is 67 and I am 59. If you do the math, that is about 8 years…at this point…no biggie, but…
When snuggling on the couch, I like to play “Let’s pretend I am 15 and my Dad is in the next room.” Now when you do the math….HOT HOT HOT!
LOL!
Thanks for your website…very cool!
Off to create a little magic!
Catherine
Hi Catherine!
Oh awesome, I’m glad she sent you over. I’m looking forward to having her here on the blog as a guest very soon.
That’s a great foreplay trick! Love it! Thanks so much for sharing.