If you have never used pantyhose in your bedroom games, then you are in for a treat with these tips!

The Pantyhose Massage

Use a pair of nylons to massage your partner. Run the material over their skin, particularly those sensitive areas! A handjob with nylons can be quite the sensation, and they feel good on other areas of both the male and female body as well.

Put your hand into the stocking part of the nylon and use it like a glove as you run your hand over your partner’s body.

The Striptease

Pantyhose can be a fun element for a striptease. Leave them until last, then peel them off with a sensual motion.

The Leg Extravaganza

Why not try leaving your nylons on during your lovemaking? Or for the guys, encourage your partner to leave theirs on. You could even “create” your own special pair of nylons with the crotch part cut out – or go with stockings instead of the full pair.

The feel of nylons on feminine legs has driven men crazy for years. Chances are, something as simple as leaving the nylons on will provide some variety and new sensations.

Be sure to enjoy the sensations! For the guys, run your hands over your partners legs and even lick and kiss them. Have her wrap her legs around you while you make out or have sex. For the ladies, doesn’t something as simple as nylons make you feel more sexy and attractive? Enjoy it! Relax and let your partner enjoy you, as well.

The Gag and Tie

Nylons can also be used for gags, ties and blindfolds!

What do you think? Have you used pantyhose for anything fun in the bedroom? Leave us a comment below and tell us about it!

Here are some tips on how to use Chocolate to spice things up in the bedroom!

The Chocolate Painter

Chocolate can make great paint for your sexy games. You can buy commercial chocolate body paint, or make your own!

To make your own, melt some chocolate chips in a pan on the stove – or in a bowl in the microwave. Add some water or milk to make it the right consistency. And be sure to let it cool a bit so that you don’t burn your partner!

You can add flavors to your chocolate body paint, as well. Add some butterscotch or peanut butter chips with the chocolate, use some vanilla extract or other extract flavors. Be creative!

You can also buy chocolate syrup at the store to use, if you don’t want to bother with making your own.

Now use your chocolate paint to create a masterpiece of art on your partner’s nude body. When you are all done, be sure to lick it off and taste your creation!

The Chocolate Crayon

Similar to the chocolate painter, you can use a piece of chocolate to write on your partner’s body. This will work well if their skin is warm enough to melt the chocolate a bit – or you can do that with your hand or fingers, as well.

This method isn’t quite as messy as the painting one and may be better if you don’t want to set up on an old sheet, or have to hit the shower afterward.

The Chocolate Penis

You can get kits to create a chocolate mold of, you guessed it, a penis!

For the men, create a chocolate version of yours and give it to your partner. With any luck, she’ll let you watch her suck on it, before she turns her attention to you!

For the ladies, why not ask your partner if you can make a chocolate version of their penis? Knowing you like their “manhood” will be a good ego booster for your partner. Men like to know you dig their stuff!

Check out EdenFantasys “Clone a Willy” kit here. (Yes, that is an affiliate link – if you buy something from EdenFantasys, I will most likely make a small commission. )

The tie, a simple piece of fabric, can be a very effective tool to use in your bedroom games! Here are some quick tips on how you can use this simple prop to help heat things up!

The Come Hither Kiss

Flip the tie behind your partner’s neck or back and use it to pull them toward you for a very sensual kiss. Be careful that you don’t pull them too hard, or get them tangled up in the tie!

The Tie Me Up, Baby!

A tie makes a great string for tying your lover up to the bedposts! Use one to tie their hands to the headboard, then a couple more to tie their feet. Now you get to tease them and pleasure them until they beg you to take them!

The Blindfold

Another great use for the lowly tie is as a blindfold. Tie it around your lover’s head to cover their eyes, then treat them to a buffet of sensations! This is a good one to combine with my ice cube tips!

The Gag

Yes, your tie can be used as a gag! If you enjoy a little bit of bondage play, then a gag might be on your list of desired items. As long as you’ve got a tie close at hand, you’ll be good to go!

There you have it! Four great ways to use a simple tie in your bedroom fun. Be sure to try at least one of these this week, and drop me a comment to let me know how you liked it!

“What? A hairbrush? How in the world can that help me spice up my love life?”

Welllll, get ready to find out as we continue with this blog series on how to use every day items to spice things up in the bedroom…

The Hair Brush

The most obvious use for a hairbrush can also be used in your bedroom! Sit your partner down on a chair, bed, couch, etc and brush their hair. A good brush will provide a great scalp massage, and this activity can be very enjoyable for the receiver – and the giver, if you make it fun and interesting!

You could take turns brushing each other’s hair, as well. Try doing it with both of you nude, or both dressed. Try it while watching TV or a movie. See what you like best, and repeat what works!

The Brush Massage

Try using the hairbrush on other parts of your partner’s body! Make sure the brush is soft and comfortable. Some brushes have very sharp bristles, so be sure to pick one that is comfortable on the skin.

Use the brush to massage your partner’s body, very gently and softly. If they like a harder, deeper massage, then try that too – but always make sure they are comfortable with what you’re doing and that you’re not hurting them.

You can stroke their arms, legs, chest, back, etc. You could even use the broad flat back of the brush to excite their more sensitive areas. The cool plastic of the brush can feel nice on nipples, genitals, etc.

The Spanking

If you enjoy a bit of spanking in your love play, the hairbrush can be an excellent tool for this. Again, be careful that you don’t use it too hard!

Can you think of any other sexy uses for a hairbrush? Tell us about it in the comments.

Something as simple as water can be a lot of fun to add to your sexy games. Check out the numerous uses for it…

The Sexy Shower

One of the more obvious ways to use water is to shower with your partner. This gives you a chance to admire your partner’s body – and let them admire yours. There is just something about seeing your partner naked and wet in the shower that can be sooo sexy.

Take turns scrubbing each other’s backs, or even your whole bodies. Give your partner a nice scalp massage while you wash their hair. Use a shower gel and shampoo that smells nice to enhance the experience.

You can even get more “naughty” in the shower. Try some sensual kissing and let that lead wherever it goes! Invest in some exciting waterproof toys to try out in the shower. Shower sex can be very erotic and exciting.

The Bath Tease

A nice hot bath can be a very sexy experience for both of you. Run a tub full of nice warm water. Add some sweet smelling bath salts, oils or bubble bath. Turn on some soft, sensual music. You can even enhance the visual aspect by sprinkling some flower petals around and in the bath – or create a trail of them from the livingroom (or other room) into the bathroom to lead your lover to their sexy bath experience.

The bath is a great way to relax together and rejuvenate from a long day. Take a few minutes to re-connect. Chat if you feel like it, or just enjoy the silence and each other’s company.

While relaxing in a bath, this is a good time to tease each other. You can do this with words, light touches, massage, or other forms of flirting and teasing. Do it in a relaxed and sensual way, that adds to the rejuvenating experience, but also gets both of you turned on and ready for some fun when you get out!

The Water Fight

Water fights are not just for little kids with water guns! You can have a lot of fun with this activity as a couple! Go out in the backyard and have some fun throwing water at each other. You can use a water gun, water balloons, cups of water, a hose, or whatever you have on hand that can do the job.

If you have forgotten how to really play together, this might be a good activity to start with. It is hard to be serious when you are throwing water at each other! Have fun with it, be goofy and silly together. Learning to be playful together is a huge step toward having the playfulness and experimentation in the bedroom!

You can do the water fight on a smaller scale indoors, as well. Catch your partner unaware with a few drops of cold water – or warm water! – on their bare skin. Follow it up with a teasing kiss or flirty comment. If it starts to get out of control, you can just shift to something else, or take it outside!

I’m Ki-i-i-i-i-ssing in the Rain

If you have never kissed in the rain, now is a good time to try it. And if you have done it before, why not do it again? A hot and heavy kiss in the rain can be quite exhilarating!

If you have a private backyard, you can take this to another level and actually make love in the rain as well! Talk about mixing things up…

A note to remember: in all of your sexy games involving water, remember that water itself is not a good lubricant. You can use additional lubricant as needed. It might be a good idea to test out several different ones to find one that doesn’t wash away too easily. An oil-based lube might be helpful for this.

Have you used Water for anything sexy? Tell us about it in the comments.

Vegetables are not only good for your health – they can be good for your romance, too! Here are some tips to use vegetables in your bedroom play…

The Veggie Fondue

Veggies can make a great fondue for a sexy treat. Cut up a few of your favorite veggies, then prepare some cheese sauce for your fondue. Now take turns feeding each other cheese-smothered veggies. Hand feeding your partner can be very sensual, and you can have some fun with the sauce in other ways too!

The Veggie Tease

Take a veggie that is phallus-shaped. A carrot or cucumber are great examples. Now mimic giving a blow job – but do it on the vegetable. Look at your partner while you work it in and out of your mouth.

Note: guys find this extremely sexy, to watch their woman do it – but women enjoy it as well! Guys, don’t be afraid to try it out on your partner and give her a nice show…

The Veggie Toy

You can use the veggie you found for the previous tip for this one as well. This time, you are going to penetrate your partner with the veggie. Make sure it is clean, a comfortable size, smooth with no sharp edges, and lubed if needed.

Use the veggie like a dildo for a bit of playful fun.

I’ll bet you’ll look at veggies in a whole new way now, huh?

What do you think? Are there other sexy ways to use vegetables? Leave a comment below and let us know!

A simple candle can do a lot to help you set the mood and enhance your bedroom play. Try some of these techniques this week and see how you like them.

The Candlelit Dinner

The clichéd candlelit dinner is still a great way to enhance your romance. Add some soft music, your favorite wine and a good meal for a particularly delightful treat. Light some candles, turn the lights off, and enjoy an evening of simple beauty and pleasure with your partner.

You can use scented candles or just regular unscented, whichever you prefer. Different sizes, colors and shapes of candles are available and can make the effect even more unique and fun.

The Wax Treatment

Hot candle wax can be a fun addition to your sexy games. Light your candle and let the wax melt for a bit until there is a nice pool of it in the candle. Now hold the candle over your partner’s skin where you want use it. Drip the wax carefully onto the skin.
A note of caution: Candle wax is hot. When dripped, it’s usually a small enough amount that it cools quickly and does not burn. Be careful that you don’t drip too much and burn your partner. And always test it out first to make sure it’s not too hot for them.

The Candle Dildo

Candles of the right shape can be used like a dildo to penetrate your partner. Be sure the candle has no sharp or rough edges. You can smooth any out by carving the candle, or use heat to melt rough edges.

The Candlelit Massage

Set the scene much like you would for the candlelit dinner – but this time do it in the bedroom! Make sure the temperature in the bedroom is comfortable, as you will want your partner nude for this one. Lay a sheet on the bed to keep any oil or lotion off the bedding.

Treat your partner to a sensual massage. Use a nice smelling lotion or massage oil. You can also combine some other techniques, like the hot wax, ice cubes and create some interesting sensations for them.

Have you used a candle for something sexy?

You know that scarf hanging in your closet that you haven’t worn in months or years? You can take that simple piece of fabric and use it to drive your partner wild…

The Scarf Massage

Use the scarf to massage your partner’s genitals. Run it lightly over their skin, teasing and caressing. Silk or other similar fabrics feel especially nice, but any light fabric will be fun too. You can run it over the rest of their body as well. Pay particular attention to their erogenous zones, such as nipples, neck, etc.

The Closet Slave

Use the scarf to tie your partner’s hands to a closet pole – in the closet! Then have your way with them. If you enjoy a bit of bondage, this may be your particular cup of tea! And doing it in the closet will really mix things up, as well!
Word of caution: when trying any bondage or other advanced techniques, be sure you have a safe word beforehand! You want to be sure that if either one of you feel uncomfortable, you have an easy way to let your partner know.

The Striptease

A scarf is a perfect addition to a striptease. You can wrap it around your naked (or half naked) body for a sensual treat for your partner’s eyes. Caress your body with it, run it over your skin and enjoy the sensations. Don’t be afraid to really lose yourself in the experience – if your partner sees you really enjoying it, that will make it even more sexy for them!

You can pick up a whole Striptease kit that includes the scarf, as well as 10 routine cards, body glitter and some tips and tricks to incorporate in your striptease!

Do you have any ideas to add to this? Leave me a comment below!

A mirror can be a very useful tool in the bedroom. In this newsletter, you’ll learn some tips on how to use it for sex, as well as a deeper technique to help you learn to be more sexy overall!

The Reflective Doggy

Take a large mirror and lay it on the floor, then have sex on top of it! This can work particularly well for doggy style, as both of you can see the reflection in the mirror. You will get to watch yourself have sex, which can be quite a thrill. If you are not comfortable with watching yourself, then you may want to refer to the fourth tip for some help in becoming more comfortable.

The Vertical Mirror Technique

Use a bathroom or bedroom mirror that is upright or vertical. This could be mounted on the wall, a door, or a dresser. Have sex in front of the mirror and watch yourselves. You could combine this with the bathroom counter for some extra fun with different positions!

The Ceiling Spy

Mount a mirror on your bedroom ceiling and then have sex on the bed underneath. Not only is it fun to watch yourselves, but with such a different perspective, it may feel more like you’re peeping in on someone else!

The Hand Mirror

Try using a hand held mirror in your bedroom games. You can use it to watch your partner when they are giving you oral, to get a better view for sex, or anything else you might think of!

The Mirror Coach

If you always feel uncomfortable watching yourself in a mirror, then essentially you should do more of it and get comfortable with yourself. Practice admiring yourself in the mirror. When you get out of the shower or bath, just stand in front of the mirror nude for a few minutes and admire your body. If you don’t find yourself sexy, then how can you expect someone else to? Not only that, but you’ll find your sex life is a lot more fun and intimate when you feel sexy and attractive. You will have more confidence, and as a result, you will get more of what you want and like.

Take a good look at yourself, your whole body. Notice features that you particularly like and acknowledge that you like that part of your body. Look yourself in the eye and tell yourself that you are sexy. The more you do this, the more comfortable you will be in your own skin, and the more you will start to really believe and act like you are truly sexy.

Do you have any ideas to add to this? Leave me a comment below.

The chair is a great piece of furniture to use in the bedroom! And no, not just for laying your clothes on… Here are some tips on how to use a chair to spice things up.

The Chair Massage

Sit your partner on the chair while you stand behind it. Now give your partner a gentle, sensuous massage while they relax. This gives you great access to their chest and the front of their arms and shoulders. These areas can be sensitive and respond well to light tough. Be sure to pay attention to the nipples and collarbone area!

The Rocking Chair

Your partner sits on the chair and you sit on their lap, straddling their legs. This is a great sex position,or can be fun just for some sexy kissing and touching. Your partner is essentially at your mercy and you can take the lead. Alternatively, you can choose the “hot seat” and have them straddle you. The most common variation of this is with him on the bottom and her on the top, but experiment and try some of your own variations.

Bend Me Over

She leans over, resting her arms or hands on the back of the chair – or on the seat. He can then penetrate from behind, doggy-style.

The Lunch Special

Have your partner sit on the chair and kneel on the floor in front of them. Now is your chance for an oral feast! Pleasure your partner with your mouth and tongue, while they relax on the chair. Your goal is to make them beg for more!

What do you think – do you have any other ideas of how to use a chair to spice things up? Leave me a comment below with your thoughts.