Don’t Hesitate, Lubricate… and That’s Not the Only Buzz!

Posted on December 20, 2011 by Jess Webb

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Once upon a time… in a life time far away… the mere wisp of a thought of your man caused a quivering wave to hit you below the belt and melted you on the spot. Wasn’t that nice?

The Kissing GameWaiting for him to show up at your door freshly shaven, smelling oh so fine, destined to kiss you before the night was over… getting turned on was no big deal!

Remember way back then? That delicious sensation of anticipation? So – what happened?

If you and your darling man have fallen into a sexual rut, don’t panic. No matter how you landed there, you’re reading this blog and learning from the yearning.

The good news is you can break out of the routine and spice things up right away at home with just a couple of new tricks and tools. You may even start melting while reading this post – taking responsibility for your sensual, intimate journey can cause a powerful reaction!

Perhaps your sweetheart may be a bit shocked at first, but believe me, he will rise to the occasion in no time!

Lubrilicious Love

Using lubricants is both fun and seductive, especially as foreplay. As your guy is heading out the door, lean in real close and tell him you have a surprise waiting for him that night. Then send him a naughty text during the day to build anticipation. In fact, send a few…..

As your surprise unfolds and the steamy moment begins, relax and start off stroking massage oil over each other’s body. Often the simple sensation of slippery skin can be achingly erotic. I love the JimmyJane candle which, after burning for awhile, becomes warm massage oil. A wonderful sable brush is included so your partner can stroke your body with the hot oil – or you his – be still my heart!!!

I also recommend using Blossom Organics’ Moisturizing Lubricant and Zestra to enhance the ‘oh my and sigh’ to your intimate moment. These and many other sensuous products can be found at Bring Back Desire.

When the two of you are nicely warmed up, slather on an edible lube where ever you would like to nibble or be nibbled. You can put it on him, watch him lube himself or let him watch you. I hope you locked the bedroom door!

Viva la Vibrator!

Want to ramp it up a notch and bring back more than a wisp of fond, melting memories? Add a vibrator to the party!

It’s ok – you’re in good company. According to Dr. Laura Berman’s research center more women dabble with vibrators than you may think. Nearly 60 percent of women in relationships get into their vibe regularly, and the single gals come (no pun, really!) in just over 33 percent in the vibe category.

Here’s some frosting for you: women who use a vibrator have more sexual interest and desire; better arousal; easier and more frequent orgasms; and less pain during and after sex. In addition, better sexual function was linked to higher levels of sexual satisfaction and even enhanced quality of life. Good to you and good for you – is this exciting news or what?!

Don’t worry about your man being hesitant or jealous; research shows two-thirds of partners were found to be supportive of vibrator play. (Are you kidding, he would LOVE to watch…ask him!)

As you work to Bring Back Desire between you and your guy, try these toy box favorites: the Rabbit Habit (Charlotte’s fave from Sex and the City), the Silver Bullet (yes, wonderful things do come in small packages!), We-Vibe II (built for two!), and the Bunny Tickler (accessories are a girl’s best friend!).

Lather on the lube and buzz your way to bliss – the quivering waves of yesteryear will be with you again – only they’ll be better and stronger!

Andrea Lyons, BringBackDesire.comAndrea Lyons is the founder and CEO of Bring Back Desire a playful, tasteful website where women from around the world are rediscovering sensual pleasure and intimacy. BringBackDesire.com helps a gal “get out of her head and back into bed”!

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Bananas, Figs, Sex, Oh My!

Posted on December 6, 2011 by Jess Webb

Sexy Couple playing with GrapesWhat does food have to do with sex?

Well, honestly a lot!

It shouldn’t be a big surprise.

You hear all the time about how certain foods can boost your energy, fight flab, and help you increase your mental acuity, so of course, there are foods to increase your sexual libido.

So if you are ready and wanting to turn up the heat with your partner, why not feed him or her these foods the next time you want to “get it on.”

Six Easy-To-Find Foods That Will Put Some Excitement Into Your Sex Life

Avocado

The Aztecs called the avocado tree “Ahuacuatl” which means “testicle tree.” Truth be told, if you ever have the pleasure of seeing an avocado tree, since this fruit hangs in pairs, they really do resemble male testicles.

Aside from their appearance, avocados have a sensual texture. If you are really adventurous, you could puree it, add some cocoa, a pinch of raw honey and play paint by body part if you feel so inclined. ;-)

Avocados are also high in essential fatty acids, B-vitamins and folic acid which are not only great for providing optimal health for your body but help ensure hormonal balance, and can boost your sexual energy.

Bananas

Bananas obviously have an erotic and phallic shape that oozes sexuality but they are also rich in potassium and B vitamins which are essential for the production of sex hormones.

The other minerals the banana contains are also great for boosting the male libido, so if you want your man to have more sexual energy, feed him a banana daily.

Figs

An open fig has often been described as the “beautiful essence of the female sex organs.” It has been said that this sensual fruit is a powerful, riveting sexual stimulant.

A great way to heat up the moment is to have your man open the juicy fig and lick the insides of the fruit in an erotic and sensual way. Of course, it will probably make you laugh but being light and playful is sometimes the most potent sexual stimulant.

Pineapple

Pineapple has been used for centuries to reverse male impotence. So feed this fruit to your man as much as possible. Enough said!

Pumpkin Seeds

This seemingly little seed is chock-full of sexual power. Since pumpkin seeds are high in zinc, they have the ability to increase testosterone production which naturally increase the male sex drive.

No wonder your man is so hot and steamy when he eats a handful of these.

Wild Salmon

Salmon is the king of essential fatty acids. These fatty acids are imperative to balancing sex hormones and can effortlessly increase your libido.

So make sure you feed your partner this delicious fish on a regular basis.

My challenge to you is to eat some or all of these foods. Take note to what happens to your sex life. These foods are not a magical cure but if eaten consistently over time, they can definitely add some pizazz to your bedroom fun.

Try enjoying them in bite-size pieces during an impromptu naked picnic on your living room floor; incorporate them secretly into your dinner menus; and make sure to keep them on your weekly grocery list.

Your sizzling sex life will thank you!

Kimberly Riggins, The Art of Eating Chocolate NakedKimberly Riggins is the creator of The Art of Eating Chocolate Naked, founder of The Love Your Naked Ass Warrior Series, and the upcoming author of the book, “Love Your Naked Ass: 80 Gentle Ways to Transform Your Life, Restore Your Serenity, & Rediscover Happiness.” Her mission is to help women all over the world fall in love with themselves and their lives. She teaches women it is possible to let go of their body image hang-ups, kick negative self-talk to the curb and shows them how to release their inner vixen, who so desperately wants to come out and play.

Her newest program, “Release Your Inner Vixen: Harness the Power of Pleasure to Ignite Your Sexy, Create Sizzling Relationships & Infuse More Fun into Your Life, With or Without a Man” is launching in January 2012. Get on the preregistration list to get your VIP status now.

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